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[โ€“] funnyletter@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

It federates with the servers that have some stuff I want access to on them, and it also has rules against being a huge douche. And it's supported by Jerboa.

That's pretty much it. Mix of convenience and what passes for my moral scruples.

[โ€“] blue_penquin@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

lemmy.ml was the only general purpose instance when I opened my account. There were only two instances back then - lemmy.ml and lemmygrad.ml

[โ€“] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

lemmy.ml because when I joined I had no idea of how the fediverse worked. I'd change it to a smaller one but it really doesn't matter much I don't think.

[โ€“] Leilys@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Initially made an account with the instance opened after my country's subreddit made the shift, but on Jerboa trying to look at other instance content was really rough.

So I joined here since I enjoy the content, and raise the black flag every so often.

[โ€“] Kovpak@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Ideology ๐Ÿ™‚.

[โ€“] fruitywelsh@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I joined lemmy.ml a while ago because following cool opensource projects is my jam.

[โ€“] Kovpak@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Ideology ๐Ÿ™‚.

[โ€“] Kovpak@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] justineie_bobeanie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy user for a couple of days here. I jumped on lemmy.world because it was big and the name suggested it was universal and open, it had open registration and allows nsfw content.

I suffered through the technical issues many of us experienced, but everything seems much better and smoother now (maybe because they were able to fix the issues, or maybe because enough people left because of them, I can't say!)

Does it matter what you use? Yes and no, I guess. Apparently the last few days performance issues were mostly local to dot-world. I did make another profile on lemm.ee and I noticed the different instances seem to show different feeds with some different content, but also many of the same posts from the same communities as well. I'm still trying to figure out how they decide what they show in their feeds. Something to do with federation, I guess, but I'm not pretending to understand the meaning of that concept yet. Given that instances can choose to federated or defederate, it seems like it must matter to some extent what instance you are on even though content can be shared between instances.

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[โ€“] JudgeDredd@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago

I signed up at Redditthat.com as it was listed as a recommend instance. I didn't want to overcomplicate the choice. If this instance doesn't fit my needs, I can still create another account somewhere else.

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[โ€“] jaanus20@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Is there really a difference between the different servers? I just browse all (It's lemm.ee btw)

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Iโ€™m a pirate ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ and like the community itself, friendly and helpful.

[โ€“] dan@upvote.au 1 points 1 year ago

I'm hosting my own. I had a free server with 9GB RAM and 99GB disk space, and it was only running my Mastodon server until now. I like the freedom to do what I want with the server :)

[โ€“] esty@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I signed up with lemmy.ml originally, but then it was a little hugged to death. I couldn't update my community, couldn't post pictures or anything and I kept getting errors.

I went through the list that was only like 10 servers or something at the time, found slrpnk.net which had the vibes of the subreddit I run and found a new home for NoLawns. The guy who runs it seems pretty cool when I had to reach out to him so I've made it my home.

I did also just make a kbin the other day to see what that's all about too but with no app (yet there's a few in the works), I've stuck here.

[โ€“] Mydispo@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Iโ€™m in Kansas City so I joined https://midwest.social ๐Ÿ˜„

[โ€“] AVeryCleverName@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.ml was requesting people register on other instances, and lemmy.one stepped up to fill the void.

But when people ask me what instance to sign up for, I tell them lemmy.world. it doesn't really matter, but being based in a bigger instance reduces the friction of finding communities.

[โ€“] C126@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

It was nearby geographically and the guy running it seemed to know what he was doing from a technical aspect.

[โ€“] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One of the few only lgbt friendly servers

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[โ€“] knobbysideup@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I added an account to a few geared towards specific community types. Then I can easily switch accounts and view local.

I'm considering standing up an instance for this type of thing myself.

[โ€“] vreraan@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] legendaryq@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I picked lemmy.world because it was recommended and had a large userbase. I know Beehaw defederated from lemmy.world and sh.itjustwor.ks, so if you want to interact with that community, that could be a consideration against, but since the user population across all of Lemmy is currently increasing dramatically, I think everything's a bit of a moving target regardless.

[โ€“] Snowman44@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I saw a youtube video that said lemmy.ml was full so you can't join. I just picked a random one that wasn't ml so I chose lemmy.world

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