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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Researching for !my_history@monyet.cc, I have histories of places I have in mind but there's barely any articles online that focuses on the history. my choices are either travelogs or primary sources - chapters of books from British orientalists written 100 years ago.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Forgot to charge my watch, been forgetting a lot of stuff these few years 😐

[–] seacat@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not as bad as my preganant brain. Was checking in to my hotel in Kelantan yesterday. Someone came and tegur me, looks super familiar, but I cannot put my finger on who this is. My brain immediately assumed, must be company staff who works in Kelantan, who I must have met back in January at our company retreat! Ofc I don’t remember him, I met so many people there from all over Malaysia. I can be excused.

Turns out he’s one of our vendors that I actually worked directly with only in July. Severely apologized after, but aiyah so embarrassing

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] seacat@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

The fella was soooo nice about it too 😭

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hahaha, baby took all the energy dy 🙈

You get any rest? You seems busy lately, fly here fly there

[–] seacat@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

I’m ok, thank you love! Another trip this Monday to JB first, then only can break huhu

[–] stormy001@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just bought a replacement for my seven year old laptop, it serve me well but getting too old to continue for my current needs. Hopefully the new laptop will serve me as well.

How are you guys? Now thinking to grab a brunch soon.

[–] Tootidit@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What laptop did you get? Just curious. Just had an awesome bowl of Sarawak laksa 🤤

[–] stormy001@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Illegear Onyx V AMD Ryzen 7, GTX1650 with 16 RAM and 512GB Samsung SSD. Second hand.

Yes I am cheap.

[–] Tootidit@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Haha, my man. Hvt bought a new laptop since forever, got a fancy thinkpad z16 2nd hand recently. Had a bad batch of Illegear last time, mcm QA very hit or miss, warranty is long though but damn does it get frustrating.

[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

just searched up Z16 beautiful laptop but it's more expensive than Carbon lol... is it supposed to sit above the Carbon? I thought that was their flagship

[–] Tootidit@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It is beautiful! They're the AMD equivalent of Carbon X1 Extreme(Intel only), the ones with discrete GPU. Was offered a real good deal, else would probably stay in the T series. The limited ports/ram/less than ideal touchpad are not doing it any favour, but I'm no Thinkpad purist(God bless the T480). God dang it, it's premium!

[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Really? The design is very different tho, bezel and chin are both smaller.

[–] Tootidit@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Oya, I meant that the Carbon is Intel's design only, the AMD equivalent is Z series. It's like those Zenbook Duo(dual screen, one on keyboard) is Intel only design.

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can't post a picture of skewered lambs without some vegans inviting themselves over with their preaching 🙄

White people are too free.

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Show em we nyets don't give a flip

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That was quick, thank you! These people are so privileged they can't see beyond their assholes.

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I invoked rule ~~3~~ 2, not 3.

My personal interpretation is in the lines of "don't get in an argument between a malaysian and their food."

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, which these preachy assholes don't understand. There's another on my thread 🙄

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The first poor sod called reinforcement I guess

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess he did. Even reported my comment here for racism for using the term white people LOL

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

it's really funny when people don't realize the way reports go through in a decentralized, federated ecosystem. it doesn't go through a central place where one set of rules (usually anglo- or euro-centric) applies to all.

even funnier is when the posts being reported are from a single person instance – the reports go to the person being reported! 🤣

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, guess they still don't get lemmy yet.

even funnier is when the posts being reported are from a single person instance – the reports go to the person being reported! We investigated ourselves and found nothing wrong.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Rule 3 is "Posting guide is just a guide wor" 🤔

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

oh shit. i meant rule 2. you get what i mean

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Haha, jk jk

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My stamina so bad now, cannot maimai ady 🥹

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Have to train more (ง •_•)ง

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not much time nowadays 😭

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aiya, too bad 🥲

abandon Lemmy, embrace Mai Mai 🙈

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

I am too addicted to coding rn

[–] UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For god's sake. My friend/housemate. Good guy. Probably the first rich good person I'm close with But you can't lend anything to this guy. He just forgets about it and lost it . And now I have to live through the whole semester break without my powerbank.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea I'm gonna ask him to replace it if he can't find it the next time we see each other

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Takpe, you jalan2 together, oh kebetulan lalu kedai IT, oh kebetulan u pun tanya, eh mana powerbank I? Oh, tak jumpa lagi? Nvm lah, can you pay for this powerbank first? Later you find back my old one, I give you this one.

/muka tembok strategy but dia yg buat2 tak tahu first

(You will discover pretty soon this is how rich and pretend-rich ppl score freebies)

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Probably the first rich good person I’m close with But you can’t lend anything to this guy. He just forgets about it and lost it .

And that's a valuable lesson that you're lucky to have encountered so early. These kind of rich ppl? They are also assholes. They're so cincai because they never have to worry, but also because they know, even if they can't articulate it, adat/politeness means ppl are unlikely to ever demand something like this, because malu/segan. Always ask back for what you're due - he's probably going to kutuk you (in that careless cincai rich guy way and he probably "didn't mean it that way") behind your back, but fuck that shit, and fuck that man.

[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

grumpy, neighbour was tapping the wall for no reason and i ended up only sleeping for 5 hours.