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[–] JakJak98@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Outer Worlds. Specifically when you have the conversation with Parvati in the bar about asexuality.

As someone who's generally not been sexually attracted to anyone but is masculine, I felt a connection in the dialogue that I've never really felt from any media before, ever.

"I've tripped up folks in the past. Folks I thought cared about me for me. People said I was Cold."

Man I've never felt representation like that. Sex to me is so strange and often gives me a disgusting vibe, though I won't deny it to my partner, its just not in my DNA I guess.

Anyways. Never finished that game. After that conversation, I lost most interest in any other dialogue in the game. Might go back at some point, but not yet.

[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Notice: Some moderate spoilers for the two media sources listed below:

Book: Misery, by Stephen King.

This is a horror story about a bestselling author whose car gets buried in a snowstorm. He's rescued by a huge fan of his, but it turns out the fan is the crazy stalker type, and she keeps the author trapped in her farm house, demanding he write her perfect version of a sequel to his novel series.

I was reading it during class in high school one day and I got to the part about the "hobbling." Anyone who saw the movie version remembers this part as where the crazy lady takes a sledge hammer to the captive author's foot and breaks it at the ankle, effectively hobbling him so he can't run away anymore.

But the book was worse. It was so much worse.

In the book, she takes an axe and cuts his foot off. But because it's a dull rusty axe, it takes her several swings to effectively hack it off, all the while the author is screaming bloody murder, unable to stop this woman from painfully hacking away at his foot. The way Stephen King described the way the axe embedded deep in the author's leg and squeaked on his bones as she dislodged it for another swing... /shudders

I had to set the book down for a moment. My teacher asked me if I was okay, because he said I was suddenly as white as a sheet of paper. When I couldn't find the words to explain what was wrong with me, he told me to go to the nurse. He sent someone to help me walk there, as I was light-headed and wobbly, and having trouble standing on my own. Never in my life have I ever had a book affect me so physically and emotionally in my life, and I'm a huge fan of gory and grotesque horror.

TV show: Season 4 finale of Dexter.

I really enjoyed Dexter, a show about a serial killer who lived by a code and tried to only murder bad people. And my all-time favorite character on the show was his girlfriend, Rita.

When the series began, she was a broken shell of a human being. Which Dexter preferred, because the relationship was simple. She didn't need much affection or attention and was the perfect cover to make him appear to have normal relationships without having to fully commit to someone emotionally.

But as the series went on, Rita became stronger, more capable, and more confident and outspoken. Through a relatively healthy relationship with Dexter, she was learning how to heal and grow as a person. She was even changing Dexter for the better; he found himself feeling attached to her and daydreaming about giving up the serial killer life to settle down and be a good father and husband.

Throughout season 4, Dexter met his match in another serial killer, Arthur Mitchell, who also had a family of his own, except he kept them under his control by fear and intimidation. It was an incredible acting performance by John Lithgow, who up until this point, I had only known as the funny man on 3rd Rock from the Sun. He was absolutely terrifying as a serial killer!

In the season 4 finale, Dexter finally gets his hands on Arthur and dispatches him, as he's done with many other bad people. But the finale twist was that Arthur had gotten his hands on Rita shortly beforehand, and Dexter returns home to find her in the bathtub, murdered.

I was so enraged that they killed off my favorite character that I shut off the TV and never watched another episode of Dexter again. Which was apparently a wise decision, as the show apparently took a nosedive after that season and never recovered. To this day, most fans agree that Dexter ended at season 4.

[–] shasta@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago (3 children)
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[–] blackbirdbiryani@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The ending to Station 11 (the miniseries) was so weepingly, heartwrenchingly beautiful. I could not stop thinking about it for weeks.

An really interesting show, would highly recommend. Actually thought it was much better than the book.

[–] BabyYodel@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I was really surprised by the book (I read it after watching the series). It is rare that I feel a TV adaptation of a story is more engaging than the the book, but that was certainly my takeaway in this instance.

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[–] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The Australian series Love My Way. Got to the end of series 1 and was so shattered I couldn't keep watching.

[–] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

I can still taste that toothpaste

[–] mertn@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Ohchr.org daily reports

[–] Orbituary@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Season 3, Episode 1 of The Office, and "The Gay Witch Hunt."

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[–] jimp@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago

Not in the same league as most of the other responses but I cannot watch About a Boy. Yes the Hugh Grant film written by Richard Curtis. I’m not a big crier but that film is like a giant TEARS ON! Button for me.
I tried to watch it again last year as it’s one of my Wife’s faves and it was on already. I was in floods even before I’d sat down.
Something to do with the boy, his situation and the fact his only friends are adults kind of resonates with my childhood.

[–] MonkderZweite@feddit.ch 3 points 10 months ago

Public media everytime somewhere is a war.

[–] DotSlashExecute@feddit.uk 3 points 10 months ago

Platoon.

Made me feel sick

[–] gens@programming.dev 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Transistor (game). The Sopranos, after a couple seasons in a row.

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[–] Iz_OK@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I finished A Farewell to Arms a few years back and I'm still hesitant to read anything by Hemingway.

[–] ef9357@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 10 months ago

Them. Too brutal, cannot watch.

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