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[–] geco2@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Don't stop Martial Arts training!

[–] cynetri@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

Programming is really not as hard as it looks to start, just don't start with C++ for the love of god lmao

[–] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago
[–] bluebadoo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There will be a time when manipulative charisma will feel strangely like love and home. Don’t listen, learn what real love feels like.

[–] cubedsteaks 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Don’t listen, learn what real love feels like.

Still waiting to find out what that is or what it's supposed to feel like.

[–] Mowcherie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It feels like being safe, and wrapped in a cocoon of warmth. That you never have to regret.

[–] bloopernova@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago

It feels like joy, strength, and peace all at once.

[–] Rocky60@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Say no more often.

[–] Barky@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 year ago

Next year will be the hardest year you've ever had, don't let it turn you bitter and cynical, people are cruel because they are struggling, hurt, and broken, and turn that around to others. Try to keep your heart open

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

What ever you do in 1991 don’t go into….

[–] redballooon@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

No you are not.

[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Plenty of people you love end up killing themselves.

Maybe it's not such a terrible idea to precede them and save yourself the grief of abandonment.

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[–] uralsolo@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Portion sizes. Your mom isn't controlling you so you gotta do it yourself.

[–] Getallen@feddit.nl 2 points 1 year ago

Dont open that site

[–] Dubious_Fart@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Don't listen to what anyone else tells you.

It will never get any better for you. Only worse and worse.

Also never, ever, fall in love. The only women that will ever express any interest at all in you are mentally unstable abusers who will hurt you in ways far worse than your family ever did.

Remember those ideas you're having about living on your own and being respected by other people? Sorry, that's not gonna happen.

[–] ShadowCatEXE@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Don't ride your bike off that boulder...Rollerskates aren't your forte.

[–] lemmy@lemmy.stonansh.org 1 points 1 year ago

Don't do drugs

[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Find a way to stay in touch with the guy you met by rambling about fnaf with him before middle school begins. Also you’re autistic, which DOESN’T mean you’re just dumb as it turns out (and is also the reason why you sketch fnaf maps every day), and btw you should look into that Bernie Sanders guy who the news is still kinda talking about

[–] NotErisma@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The only thing you're gonna like about being an adult is staying up late and having dessert before dinner...

Also you will reach a point in your life where having dessert before dinner, well shit- having a meal in general will be a blessing- but you'll pass it, and you'll probably go back in time to annoy yourself.

soviet-playful

also for god sakes YOU ARE NDN

[–] gonzo0815@sh.itjust.works -5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Don't learn shit to change the world, but to become wealthy. You won't change it, so make yourself comfortable.

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