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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by lemmylem@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
 

I'm worried for the world. All I've been thinking about is WW3 and this shit makes me want to vomit. I can't even smoke weed anymore without having a near panic attack. I feel unmotivated. I wake up and immediately just want to go back to bed. I'm not trying to spread fear but the Doomsday clock is 90 seconds till midnight, during the Cuban missile crisis, it was 7 minutes before midnight. Can we just have one day of fucking peace? Can everyone just stop for one day and enjoy one day of peace?

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[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

Hmm... it sounds like the media sources that you use may be exaggerating information. Not to say that there aren't truly horrible things going on in the world, but I wouldn't say that it's bad enough that the world as we know it will end. Frankly, that's kind of how things have always been. There's always some existential crisis in every generation. And we've never aced a crisis, and we probably never will. But we'll probably crawl our way past the finish line in a kind of half-assed victory. Not the best outcome, but not the worst either.

The problem with comparing things to "how things were like in the past" is that we only remember the things worth remembering. This applies to everything - we only remember the good movies but not the bad ones, the good songs but not the bad ones, the good times, etc. Inherently, comparing things to the past will make it seem like society is going downhill. Not because things are worse now, but just because everyone forgot all the trash that were in the past and only remembered the memorable parts.

Anyways, it also sounds like you may have depression, and it's causing you to let bad news stew for longer than they should. Might be a strange question, but have you talked to a mental health professional about it?

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 8 months ago

Not to worry. Every time we have a nuclear war we all just wake up the day before it happened again.

Unless you’re one of the unlucky few who survives it, you’ll never have to experience a nuclear war.

[–] Hegar@kbin.social 2 points 8 months ago

I found that reading The Zhuangzi really helped me get perspective on the state of the world.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 months ago

I feel you, more than you know. If you aren't on an SSRI, i can't recommend seeking a doctor that will prescribe you one, I had to quit smoking myself because I had a panic attack that sent me to the ER before I was medicated, qnd havent started back since cause the antidepressant works so well. Really hope you can get your shit sussed out, i was spiraling just as hard if not harder than you before I decided to seek medical help for my mental issues. You dont need to completely disconnect from the internet and news like everyone is saying, just get your mental health to a level where you can deal with how heavy shit is getting lately.

Are we only on III somehow ?

Feels like we should be hitting ... like ... ww8 by now

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

I'm sorry to ask, but how old are you? The level of fucked does varies

[–] 520@kbin.social 2 points 8 months ago

The only thing we can do is live the lives we have.

For as long as I've been alive we've always been on the brink of one thing or another. Worrying about the bits that you cannot change will only do you harm.

[–] _tezz@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I do just need to point out that the Doomsday Clock is run by a media organization with no ties to any government. There's no hard facts about what the number represents, it's just a small group of academics who decide how close we are to apocalypse off vibes. While I think the problems they point out are valid concerns you have to remember that their main thing is to drive clicks. Of course this is easier if you're constantly scared.

I know it seems like we're in the worst time possible, but crime and violence is as low as it's ever been and the standard of living for human life in general is also as high as it's ever been. I'd echo the other commenters, sounds like it's time for a social media detox.

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[–] Manzas@lemdro.id 1 points 8 months ago

I have multiple borders with Russia and it's alies and live kinda close so I am kinda fucked

[–] lseif@sopuli.xyz 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

no my friend. we are fine. sure, bad things happen , but a lot of it is just fearmongering. it will all work out

[–] unreasonabro@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

our extinction does count as "it all working out" JIC you'd forgotten

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[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Sounds like you need to lay down the weed and touch some grass bro

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

I mean, you could log out.

That isn't going to change the fact that the US is becoming a fascist state and the rest of the world will follow, but you can get a day of blissful unawareness.

I think this being an election year in the US also makes the whole world more wacky. It will decide if the world gets one more dictator or not, and one that would have a massive military at his disposal.

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

The key is to learn to accept our inevitable doom. It gets easier if you design yourself to it and just go play video games or something to pass the time.

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Some of us are most likely fucked, some of us are probably pretty lucky.

Same shit, different pile basically.

You can't control the world so you have to find your own peace and maybe find ways to make the world around you better, even if only in some small way.

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