Allero

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[–] Allero -4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (15 children)

I'm not ever saying women are dispensable tools in this fight (something you imply I said) or that we should "sacrifice" someone - the safety of every person is hugely valuable - I'm just saying that going separate is not gonna make things safer in the long run. There are other factors at play here that will show up, and we should not strive for knee-jerk solutions.

I doubt that separation alone is gonna help much, and I'd love to see comprehensive evidence for or against my take, if any exists. I want to see what is the best evidence-based solution that would actually improve safety of everyone.

If anything, I want to make sure as little women as possible are ever victims of such accidents, I'm just concerned over whether this is a best approach.

[–] Allero -2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Yeah that's part of what I mean.

Another part is that this proliferates the issue on both ends - aggressive men don't learn to behave well as they don't confront the situation and don't learn self-control, and women turn more to fear and loathing, severing more and more contacts with men and alienating them, which ends up hurting men and limiting their exposure to women side of the story, making them more violent.

[–] Allero 14 points 3 months ago (35 children)

Honestly I think in most cases segregation is just not the answer.

The more far away we become based on fairly arbitrary characteristics, the less there is opportunity for a meaningful dialogue that would change the status quo around the issue.

On a practical side, I wish there were proper passenger safety measures and procedures against harassment. A man is trying to do that to you? Record it and report to the crew immediately, and let them deal with the perpetrator and call police on the ground when applicable.

[–] Allero 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

You're right on that, but we can't expect everyone to act the same and ditch such apps all at once. So, it's very important to point the issue out and take action to stop it.

[–] Allero 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

Happy you did!

Also, afaik, there are guidelines for trans athletes in most major sports competitions, in terms of testosterone levels etc., to ensure fair play, so this wouldn't matter anyway.

And also, Algeria is officially a Sunni Islam country where gender transition is outlawed.

[–] Allero 26 points 3 months ago (4 children)

While I certainly believe many sports events are really just a waste of money, Olympics is probably not.

Not only does it serve as a way to promote sports worldwide, boosting public health and inspiring people, it also is a remarkable feat of international cooperation, contributing to the relative peace and harmony.

Now, all those football leagues and stuff should really vanish. They cost way more than their benefit could ever be.

[–] Allero 9 points 3 months ago

Greeks come to disagree :D

[–] Allero 3 points 3 months ago

It's cozy in here indeed! Welcome!

[–] Allero 1 points 3 months ago
[–] Allero 3 points 3 months ago

That's perfectly alright, all been there :)

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