ChairmanMeow

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[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thankfully it looks like that did not happen. So far Trump got less votes than he did in 2020. It's just that Harris did not manage to get the democratic voter base off the couch.

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Four more years for Carter so he can vote them out again?

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 30 points 1 week ago (3 children)

They are pedophiles. I know it's a wild thing to state but I don't like pedophiles.

This makes sense and all, but a pedophile who hasn't harmed a child hasn't caused any harm. These people have a disorder that should be treated, but this isn't always easy. If this can give them some outlet that prevents any actual harm being done to children, then that can easily be argued to be a net positive.

I prefer these people jack off to AI porn over real child porn or worse, them turning to actual sexual abuse of children. What's wrong with preventing child abuse?

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you have any research that backs this up? Because there is research that claims the opposite and that this can work as a preventative measure.

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev -5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We're not talking about basic biological functions here. We're talking about issues that men and women may experience differently. This example is apples to oranges.

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev -2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I see, but the point of the comic is that women don't seem to agree with you and find that way of thinking about it fairly exasperating at times. In many cases there hasn't been a serious attempt to address the issues raised, so claiming that you can't address them without also addressing men's issues would be perhaps a bit premature.

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev -3 points 1 week ago (5 children)

the direction I take to "steer it away" is to look at it as something universal, which is simply more helpful to understand why it happens, not to tie attention to men's issues specifically.

I understand your intentions, but it doesn't have the intended effect. By doing this you are making the assumption that the way women experience these issues is (close to) the same as the way men experience it. But you can't really assume that, and often people disagree.

When women want to talk about problems they face, it's important to hear them out and address their issue, instead of what amounts to 'deflecting' to a "grander" issue. At its core it's a whataboutism that derails the conversation, and that's not what you intended.

So my genuine advice is: don't. Address these problems one by one. The solutions can often be different.

You have to assume that

I believe we've come at the point where women and men issues are so intertwined, so much permeating each other that it's no longer helpful to see them as separate issues to begin with.

may well not be correct, and it can feel incredibly invalidating to people by assuming that this is the case.

[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 10 points 1 week ago

Morality is a product of civilisation and community. It's the ability of groups to decide on a single set of rules by which they would lime to be treated by, as breach of those rules can cause physical or emotional harm. And then there's simple evolution, where certain "moral rules" allowed civilisations to survive and thrive better than others.

At no point is "god" required here.

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