Tailscale is (like) a VPN, but traffic will go through their servers.
That's wrong. In a peer to peer VPN the traffic should not pass Tailscale infrastructure.
See their docs: https://tailscale.com/kb/1094/is-all-traffic-routed-through-tailscale
Cyclo
joined 1 year ago
Must you give your mustard to everything?
Another very fast and folder based system would be mStream: https://mstream.io/
It works very well, also good mobile apps (Android + iOS)
Flame is not actively maintained anymore. Have a look at this fork which offers support for categories: https://github.com/fdarveau/flame :::
This is the right answer.
Everything but the coordination server is open source. But you can selfhost this part yourself: https://headscale.net/