DelvianSeek

I know this is an old post by now, but I've been away from lemmynsfw for a while and just now catching up. Wanted to thank you for this - it's really interesting and some good info for anyone else maybe trying to follow in your footsteps. I can only imagine the devious plans you have in mind...

First off, a good edging like this is one of the greatest things ever - such a wonderful combination of pleasure and frustration, it's mind-blowing.

Second, I find the idea of handing over real ownership of my cock to someone else, like you describe in your last paragraph, to be one of the hottest fantasies out there. For me, one of the fantasies along those lines that often goes through my mind is not the idea of permanent chastity (in the sense of never being unlocked, though sure that can be a hot fantasy at times), but the idea of never touching my own penis. Imagine if you were to tell Luke that he'll be unlocked from time to time, you'll edge him, occasionally you might even fuck or suck him if you feel like it, and he might even get the occasional orgasm. But only you get to touch that dick when it's out of the cage. That he'll never actually touch his own penis again because it's yours and you don't want anyone else playing with it!

(Of course you're the one in charge and you can always change your mind, but imagine what a mind-fuck that would be for him)

Thanks for posting!

I also have a cage that forces my penis down, and it's true that there's a bit of a mindfuck in it. But seriously, damn you're hot, and Luke is lucky to be able to experience that. I'm very jealous!

Oh man, I'm typically way more into femdom than maledom, but that was fucking HOT!

Congratulations and good work!

I'm confused. That's not Riley Reid.

Is the name misspelled in the title and this post just a mistake, or is this a new performer going by Reily Reid and trying to capitalize on Riley Reid's fame?

A little bit, but not really.

Using the Sync app (on Android anyway), you can hit the settings button while browsing posts, and under settings there's an option right there to hide read posts.

On the web, if you click on your username in the top right and go to settings, there is an option "show read posts". By default I think this is turned on - uncheck the box to turn it off. For a while, this wasn't working, but it seems to have been fixed along the way.

Not just you. I'm finding that's true on most of these posts.

Oh that's really a bummer :-(

What about making a free onlyfans or fansly where someone could "tip" to donate? You wouldn't have to actually put up any content.

Hahaha! I have used this username (here and on reddit) for years, and you are the first person to call that out. Excellent!

First and foremost - thank you for everything you do running lemmynsfw. You're doing an amazing job and I, for one, appreciate it tremendously.

Re: downvotes, I still believe that downvotes open only to community members is the way to go, but I appreciate you're doing what you feel is best and if you think it's genuinely improving things to turn them off entirely, you do what you need to do. I'm willing to be convinced, I truly am, but I haven't been yet. That said, I found a workaround to my biggest problem with it - hiding read posts without voting - so I don't have to upvote things I don't like just to make them go away. With that in place, I can live with it. At the end of the day, I just want to be able to browse without seeing the same posts more than once.

Re: donations, it's truly a shame that you haven't been able to set something up. I was here right at the beginning, and I was a very early donor, because I truly believe that Lemmy needs a dedicated place for NSFW content, I want lemmynsfw (and Lemmy as a whole) to succeed, and I understand how much it costs to host such a place. So I'd be very happy to donate again if you can find a channel. That said, I don't want to have to do so using some sort of cryptocurrency. Not only because, like Lemmy itself, it's not quite there yet in terms of usability, but also because (unlike Lemmy), at the end of the day I find the entire crypto world to be very scammy and shady, rampant with bad actors. Not to mention that Trocador app you linked to elsewhere doesn't seem to handle setting up monthly recurring donations, which is what I'd like to do.

My suggestion would be to investigate Epoch as a payment processor. I have joined multiple porn sites in the past, and they've all used Epoch for their billing, and at least I personally have never had a problem. They seem on the up-and-up to me (but again, I said investigate - please do your own due diligence). What I don't know is if they handle one-time donations, or if they just do monthly billing.

Re: Gallery, I'll be honest I'm not that interested in new UI's for Lemmy. The default UI + TamperMonkey scripts (LemmyTools + Lemmy Keyboard Navigation) work great for me and pretty much reproduce old.reddit on PC, and Sync took me all of 2 or 3 days to adjust to on Android and now I'm cool with it. I think it's wonderful you want to keep contributing to the Lemmy universe, and it's awesome you found someone to help, but just speaking for myself, I'd view this one as pretty low priority.

Once again, thank you. You invest so much time and energy here it's crazy. Hope you get the donation channel issue worked out very soon, so I can start contributing again.