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I appreciate the advice, I'll keep that in mind should I want server transcoding in the future.

We have a Nvidia Shield so transcoding isn't needed for us either. Our server is on an old NUC with a fifth generation i3. Started overheating a year ago so I removed it from its case. It's running Windows though so now that the little one is back in school I might upgrade it to Mint and see if I can prolong its life.

Regarding YouTube, we have Smartube on the Shield, and have it configured to open to the playlists page, with our son having his own profile. This lets us set up playlists for him to watch that don't include any attention whoring videos and are (at least in part) vetted by us beforehand. Lately I've been considering adding the YouTube content to our server. Smartube is pretty tweakable though, I like it.

We also have a media server, and I too wish it were easier to set up so more parents could have more control over the content viewed. As it is, I'm thinking to upgrade our machine so it can handle multiple streams both locally and from other houses.

The other parents we interact with like the concept of limited curation, but they lack the technical experience to get it set up and so they rely on Netflix, Prime, and Disney+. Maybe I'll get around to it this winter haha.

I wouldn't say that screens themselves damage attention spans or anything, but when the screen is the tool to deliver the lowest consumable content imaginable, cutting out the screens is the way to go.

This recommendation is understandable, but as with anything moderation is key. Not just in terms of how much screen time you allow, but the type of content they interact with.

Ours started screaming, the kind where his body was vibrating with effort, and afterwards said he felt better and apologised. We're pretty impressed.