As long as you don't make your title incomprehensible to anyone who isn't a native English speaker

I put them back together and now I have 12 friends, now what?

That and "this is worthless, they only tested 10 000 people" are the worst

Anyone can host a server that'll talk to the others seamlessly (like Lemmy), but it doesn't talk to Lemmy

for (i=0; true; i++)

Key point: they get money for implementing features, not fixing bugs, so I think for now they're surviving off donations

are getting butthurt

Were butthurt, until they got what they wanted and the community got banned

Moderates: TheDonald@exploding-heads.com

This. There's no need to join the biggest instance, as long as you're not among an instance's first users you won't notice much difference.

I’m assuming that people would downvotes pictures of cats which had the #dogs hashtag

Honestly I'm not sure. One problem on reddit is that people just upvote things they like that show up on their frontpage regardless of where it's posted, which means all the big subs blur together.

On https://join-lemmy.org/instances doing a ctrl+f for 'NSFW' gives 3 hits, so maybe one of those

At least one person on your instance also has to be subscribed to a community for it to show up in All (you'll only notice this on brand new instances, you'll have to subscribe to everything you might want to see)