NoNatNovember

I don't think that's normal. I run Synapse and Postgres, and they only take about 200mb of ram together. Load is less than 2% on a 2-core vm.

It's proprietary

I use ArchLinux BTW, because

1. It's very minimal, no bloatware
2. AUR. ~~3. I feel superior~~
3. It just works™*