Psychodelic

joined 1 year ago
[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 1 points 31 minutes ago

Basically. I think of it as allow yourself to get that dopamine hit, instead of doing what I do which is probably like think you should've done it already or see how easy that was, why didn't you do it sooner. Fuck all that. Say good shit bro! Turned out sick

Then hopefully you can make it a habit/ritual and actually make it feel natural or even funish.

Not there yet at all myself

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

I recently learned about dysthymia - basically a form of long-term functioning depression. Idk why I'd never heard about it before, but it for sure resonates with my experience.

Apparently, we should be able to get ~50/50 external/internal validation. For example, most healthy people can apparently do chores or something and get an internal sense of accomplishment that supports the external validation that is having completed chores.

The problem is, for some folks (hi there) we can't really put up the internal validation part. Like, I'd be expecting the completed chores to make me happy, but that's just not how it works. I need to be active in validating myself and saying something like, "good job dude!"

That shit is hard - especially if it's like the total opposite of what you heard growing up.

Relevant video

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

I just read it as supporting third parties. I thought you were going to mention what happens if a third party were to get more votes but not a majority. I actually don't know. Would there still be a runoff between Dem and Rep or would the third party actually win it? I'd assume theres some rule that the third party has to win a majority or some bs

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

There's a link under the post linking to info on the Sri Lanka election.

All good! It's easy to miss

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Their motto is literally whatever. It's unfortunate but I wonder how much they even try to properly inform themselves at this point.

Tbf, many have families and homes that require them to submit themselves fully to the brutal dick of capitalism and relinquish all else, unlike millennials and gen z. Because of that, I'm pretty sure if given the choice, gen x would absolutely prefer to fight to maintain the status quo as they're fully committed to it - that is to say, many likely believe "this is just the way things are" and things are only bad if you're lazy or you lose your government-issued bootstraps therefore fundamental change like we've never seen before isn't needed and is actually a radical position to hold.

It's a bit of a bummer since they have tons of experience and executive function skills later generations seem to lack/struggle with

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Idk, I see liberals telling everyone to be calm and content and that the economy is great and getting better.

I totally get the reason and vibe they're going for, but they're basically saying don't be righteously furious and ignore reality, imo, while they capitulate on claims that crime and immigration are bigger problems. I guess, I just don't know that significant economic/social change has ever happened without pissed-off people fighting like their lives depend on it

Most people I know know about the drake beef and the Diddy scandal, but I couldn't even count like 5 people that I know personally that could name their senators or explain what the electoral college is.

I think most of us prefer to ignore our emotions, and I think anything related to politics beings up uncomfortable emotions for people so they just don't do it and stay away from the topic

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Not with that attitude. Seriously, we'll need to be absolutely furious if we ever want something to be done about something we care about

Does anyone remember anger?

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago

I've never been as proud of my state representatives as I was when I lived in Oregon. Wyden and Merkley are American heroes, as far as I'm concerned

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Idk, you ever wonder who bought/read all those Killing x books that Bill O Reilly wrote?

[–] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

You of to do what you of to do...

Personally, I try not to shame anyone for voting a specific way, though I certainly still judge them for it. I'm just trying to be more curious now, rather than disrespectful

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