There are some good short medium and permanent options out there. But not really recommended for hookups.
A copper coil worked great for us before we decided on no more kids. They come with or without hormones and will make periods worse, but then all the creampies one could dream of!
His comments make me cringe so hard. He has a loving partner but damn, he doesn't deserve her. And I don't use this line lightly.
Hell, after that there would be no anal ever again.