SoylentSnake

joined 4 years ago
[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

weird bodily shitwhy tf my nipples feel weird and sensitive when i have bad anxiety shit is unpleasant af oooaaaaaaauhhh

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

libidinal goes kinda hard tho matt was really onto something with that one

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

isntrael 's escalations in the middle east.

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (4 children)

i'm not much of a bulletins and news poster but uh.....is this some world war 3 shit? i find it hard to follow rapidly developing geopolitics but this all seems very bad and bleak...

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago

you may be right that it simply needs more time. feels bad right now but if we're really meant to stay close it's a pretty small blip in the course of a human life (knock on wood, assuming nothing bad happens to us prematurely). it's a bit more complicated than hoping she'll come around though. obviously i still have feelings, but i don't think i'd trust the prospect of romantic reconciliation right now. and it's not really black and white who broke things off - she made the final judgment call but i impulsively proposed doing so then took it back during the fight that ended stuff which obviously made her feel destabilized and unsafe, it was a pretty bad time. relationships and dating are hard man deeper-sadness

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

considering what a dork i act like in the mega methinks many of you would be quiiiiiiiiiiiite surprised to learn how handsome and charming i am in the real grasstouching world smuglord

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Usually people find that hard but I figure since we were never really lovers (just rapidly heading there) it should be easier.

it's massively case by case but yeah usually easier to convert a crush that never happened back to friendship. it sounds like crush 2 is going through some dark shit from your last post, i hope they get the help they need.

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

first dates are low stakes! don't worry so much about rizz and worry more about being open and curious about her, remember that you're feeling out whether you might be interested in her as much as the other way around. I agree with CommieJones about keeping texting to a minimum before an in-person meet, you can get so much more of a real read on someone out of a few hours face to face vs a whole epoch of texting.

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago (5 children)

idk dating posting, idk what to even call ithaha maybe i am not ready to be friends with my ex situationship i saw them on feeld and it gave me some baaaaaaaaaaaad feelings in my heart and soul deeper-sadness maybe i'll get over it by the time it's time to see them this week. if we're friends obviously we'd want to be able to talk about each other's love lives but i feel like that's something that's maybe wiser to work up to than to dive into right away and i was not at all ready for the "stumble upon them on the sex app" introduction to all that. feeld is so fucking stupid in terms of its privacy features also, idk if you can block people at all and you definitely can't do the tinder and hinge thing where you block your phone contacts

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

Work sucks

also true on its own (but yes to the rest of your post as well lol)

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago

def better long term but probably feels more unfun in the moment lol

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