I played the original NWN for 13 years, mostly community run online servers, and loved it so much. It does make me sad that companies don't make games like that anymore, but from that perspective it does make sense why they wouldn't.
Too bad you couldn't do something open source like that since it requires the D&D licensing.
Could try Spy x Family. Still action, but less explicit in its depictions of violence (though there is still violence), and overall wholesome story / message.