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[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Because what it actually means is the freedom for them to spew their hate speech without consequences. Freedom of their speech, not others'. They hate being "punished" for their hateful ideologies and view it as censorship. Being able to spread their hateful beliefs to large groups is extremely important in propagating it to other people. Conservative created platforms are inherently limited by the fact that their audience is not only quite small but also everyone there already believes their bullshit. They want and need to place their hate in mainstream places where others will see it and hopefully come to believe it

There's also the bonus effect of reducing both the amount and proportion of non-conservative voices.

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I've been using gboard swiping for idk how many years now and I have no issues with it. There are some words that will less common to get right like say as vs ad or weed vs we'd but it's so quick and easy to press the erase key and then swipe it again. If you do a swipe and then erase it, I've found that it never picks that word again no matter how many reswipes until you've decided on that word and moved on. So if I did want we'd but got weed earlier, weed goes back into the normal prediction priority or whatever as soon as I've moved past we'd.

Or even if I swipe and it isn't the right word, the autocorrect/autocomplete/suggestion bar will be words very similar to the swipe motion I did. I find it has the right word in that bar (if I didn't get the right word in the first place) probably 90% of the time. Similar suggestions by swipe shape also remain for the duration of, eh... that keyboard session for lack of a better term? You lose it if you close the keyboard or switch apps. So if you're just trucking along doing your swiping and notice later that it picked a word incorrectly, you can still go back to it and have the swipe shape-based recommendations.

I have no idea if this stuff is how it works out of the box or if it's because of customization settings I did but it works really well and makes phone typing pretty easy.

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I'm just shelving online dating entirely for now. In months of obsessive swiping, it didn't really go anywhere and overall just made me feel worse. At the very least meeting and making friends in person will have positives that online dating or online friending don't have because dating apps are honestly kind of toxic to actually meeting people even if trying to do it for friends. I just didn't know what else to try because I didn't know how else to meet people but I found some options now.

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I'm slowly learning to be less hard on myself about it. My friends tell me I sabotage myself by trying too hard due to some not great beliefs about myself (that each "failure" in dating then serves to reinforce) so I'm trying to take their advice, scale that back, and just focus on making new friends for now. I'll have to see how it goes for my mental health and I'm turn ability to not self sabotage over time but it feels like a better approach than my previous obsessively browsing 5 different apps for hours a day desperate for a match at least

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 21 points 6 months ago (7 children)

Having a girlfriend 😔 attempts at dating haven't gone well

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

I want the sticker but to swap the bottom text when I put it on

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Me irl on dating apps 😞 Except after 4 days it's pointless anyway cause they never respond again

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 15 points 7 months ago

I dated a girl for a bit who really, really loved having her ass eaten and vice versa so... I don't think it is. I'm pretty sure my distaste for it was a factor in her calling things off.

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 11 points 8 months ago

They wouldn't lol it's a shitpost

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

How about with gaming?

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Genuinely the best greentext I've seen in a long time

[–] boobs_@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I've met people only online so far as well. Dating apps can lead to actual dates sometimes lol. There are also always local meet up groups whether for particular interests or just for general singles. For example, I went to a local LGBT meetup group recently and it seems like the kind of thing where relationships can develop organically from the friends I hope to make there. Taking a perspective of friends first can help with dating prospects too imo

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