classic

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[–] classic@fedia.io 1 points 3 hours ago

That's pretty good, actually

[–] classic@fedia.io 1 points 3 hours ago

Were you in any particular transition during that period? Like high school to college or 20s to 30s? I wonder if that worsened the impact for people, if the social isolation happened to time with important life transitions

[–] classic@fedia.io 3 points 18 hours ago

Especially given this context, maybe you can be upfront about your uncertainties with them?

[–] classic@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is exactly the type of thing I was reflecting on. Have you also found yourself having a lower tolerance for stressors?

[–] classic@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago

Absolutely. It comes down to exposure therapy, basically. Reacclimation.

[–] classic@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I can tell that I get a little weird if I'm alone too long. And the time it takes is shorter since covid. I'm assuming from too much time alone during the peak period

[–] classic@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm more referring to people who aren't so much choosing to isolate. Not a preference, but a loss of the capacity or opportunities to socialize

[–] classic@fedia.io 10 points 1 day ago

now find it completely weird and disorienting to deal with people in public now.

This is what I've been hearing (and experienced). And that it's not a preference, it's more that the nervous system has struggled to recalibrate; or there was not enough opportunity for it to do so and that has led to a feedback loop

[–] classic@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago

Yes some kids I know, it just sort of became how they identify: shy, more anxious

[–] classic@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Maybe if we smushed the two together and made up a word? Like hikicovidomori

[–] classic@fedia.io 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm glad to hear you live in a country where you can get more specialized support! I hope the new treatments pan out

 

People who haven't really resumed socializing at levels they used to, people who lost the capacity to regulate during interpersonal interactions, people who lost trust in others... I encounter lots of partial returners out there

 

I'm on a Legion Lenovo Slim 5. The webcam shows too much area around me during video calls (the browser based teleconferencing tool that I use doesn't have settings to adjust this).

I tried the cameractrls app, but it doesn't offer any way to crop or zoom in. Any other suggestions?

 

Beyond just marking up an e-book, are there any devices that would also allow you to edit the file itself?

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