deathbird

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[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 22 points 1 month ago

I think you're giving the guy too much credit. Sometimes things are as they seen. He just didn't like the moderation scheme on Twitter, made a gesture buying it, fumbled a little bit and overbid, then after having been forced to acquire it tried to turn it into something closer to what he wanted it to be.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Masnick's post is well put, but also a disturbing reminder of how much power nation-states can exert over the Internet.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 13 points 1 month ago

Or....you tend to be negative.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 4 points 1 month ago

I feel bad for folks who are introverted and not particularly strong. Almost every job with a low barrier to entry demands a lot of physical or emotional labour.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Imagine a barista with a pin that says "Here are some of the soft skills that this job demands and which I lack."

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think by "do nothing" he means no arbitrary interface changes, new features no one asked for, etc.

That's the sort of "doing something for the sake of doing something" stuff that Microsoft and Apple often do that people hate.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

When I have romantic feelings it doesn't make me want to sleep with the person they're directed towards.

It doesn't make me want to necessarily sleep with them either, but rather stay up late having sex with them. And maybe after sleep.

But this idea of asexual romantic attraction makes about as much sense to me as saying "When I am hungry it doesn't make me want to eat food."

When I say I have "romantic feelings" for someone, the feeling I'm referring to is a combination of love and sexual desire. Even when I was a kid and would sort of push down or repress sexual thoughts because in my head it felt wrong or inappropriate, what I was feeling was sexual desire and love.

My understanding of the term "romantic" has always been euphemistic, based in an understanding that it would be weird and rude to just tell someone you're crushing on that you love them and you want them to love you too and you want to put your mouth on their genitals because you think you could make them feel really good and you want to physically intimate to be vulnerable with them because vulnerability is a part of of not just physical but emotional intimacy and you want them to share their feelings and feel open to you and so on and so on you get the idea.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 42 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Do people seriously conciously fantasize about taking part in erotic acts with real people (especially ones they have feelings for)?

Yes.

I kinda get the disrespect perspective, maybe. I felt that a little as a teen. But then I thought it probably wasn't respectful treating my crush in my mind like a sort of sexless statue or object rather than a real human being that I was in love with and wanted to have sex with.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 67 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Because they're also rich. Laws are for the poors.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Public micro blogging overall is a bane, so yes.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 8 points 2 months ago

The difference between clearly documenting features, and hiding or removing them.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

First time I saw a Zoomer do that it hurt my soul.

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