Well, I'm one of the people who went through a period watching the anime raw, so I see your argument there. But if you read fast enough, it's just, I don't know, you stop consciously reading, and just watch the thing. Also, especially with modern American movies, the sound mixing is ass for the home speaker specifically because they've designed it that way. It's easier to have the subtitles on, because they designed the soundscape for the theater (Christopher Nolan does it on purpose, for example) and stereo be damned, especially with dialogue.
That said, I've gotten out of pooh-poohing whatever way you want to enjoy your show; there's not enough time on earth to worry about whether Tara Strong or Megumi Hayashibara is the better VA (my vote's on Hayashibara, but Strong is my childhood, and besides, it doesn't matter).
I dunno, man; let people enjoy things, right?
I keep forgetting to try to find the Italian dub for Gunslinger Girls. That show made me cry twice already, and I'm ready for the third one. I think