xophos

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[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 11 months ago

Can we just not? Please?

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Once you find good people, copying is unnecessary, because they will accept you as you are. Took me 20 years to learn that.

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 year ago

If health care is a human right, it should be available to everyone, paid for by those who have the money. And those who provide it of cause should be paid well, from doctors to nurses to assistants.

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago

Autistic people have it really hard in Japan, because there are so many hidden social rules and adults who don't know or can't follow them are seen as antisocial. Germany is not so bad. Here in northern Germany at least, people (NTs too) mostly accept direct communication and tend to be rather direct themselves. And I rarely had bad experiences when I needed to ask for clarification.

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago

I was diagnosed last year with ASD and ADHD. I'm in my 40s. Still in the process of adapting.

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago

I am done going to private social gatherings that I don't enjoy. They are usually optional and if not I find a good reason why I can't go. I don't even need to lie. Usually I just say that I'm under the weather and don't feel up to meeting a lot of people. Which is all true. Since I occasionally suffer from migraines, most people will assume that as a reason but that's not my problem. Work meetings are usually dispassionate enough that I can endure them if they are not back to back.

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It already is :-)

[–] xophos@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago

SEO is an inevitable result of capitalism and the existence of search engines. If food and shelter for your family depends on it, you will become an asshat too.

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