FtM and Transmasc

Not saying that I want to go full-corpo, but the idea of getting ahead in a career is really appealing to me. I feel stuck in my job I have now because there's not much chance of advancement and the hours are really inconsistent. I've been considering going back to college to pursue something that would allow me to have a stable income. To tell you the truth, I'm jealous of the memes about trans girls being software engineers. I want to be one too. I would definitely make a lot more than I'm making right now. It's also the job my dad has, and I was curious about what it would be like as a career when I was younger. All the layoffs were really what scared me away from it, but I'm not in a much better situation right now. I just don't really know of any trans guys that are in professional positions like that. I don't know if there's a reason for it, or if the guys that do get ahead like that just go stealth.

It's the first time it's happened throughout our entire extended family.

I'm not crying! You're crying! F you!

I'm not at all up to date on what's out there in regards to websites or posts or videos or the like. (Medical gatekeeping put me back in the closet 20ish years ago so I never really collected resources, I was just mostly doing my own thinking on my own.)

So I'm curious what favorite links and resources and stuff you guys have. New "developments" sometimes surprise me (in a good way).

There's no particular FTM related topic I'm looking for...I guess I'm just asking you guys to share your info-hoards. :)

An early-stages collaborative and open source resource repository for trans people. Seems to be looking for community contribution. NOTE: I am not at all affiliated

Original post from /r/trans:

Hello everyone! 💜

I'm Tamzin, a transfemme non-binary person, and I'm here to share an exciting development that I believe can significantly benefit the trans and non-binary community. I've recently acquired Transgender.org, and my vision is to turn it into a powerful, dynamic, and continually evolving resource for our community. This is my first time posting in r/NonBinary about this project, and I truly value your input and involvement as we shape this platform.

A month ago, we began with a straightforward landing page. Today, I'm delighted to announce that we've launched a new beta version of the site, which is entirely open-source and available in 20 languages! (https://github.com/TransgenderDotOrg/static-site). Our immediate focus is on amassing thousands of resources, and we warmly invite all of you to contribute via our Discord.

But our vision is not limited to being a resource repository. We plan to integrate Erin’s informed consent map, enhance searchability, create custom content on lesser-discussed but vital topics, and eventually launch an exclusive social media platform for trans and non-binary individuals, inspired by initiatives like the Trevor Project.

Simultaneously, we've teamed up with a top-tier law firm to initiate a 501c3 and 501c4, aiming to uplift our community socially and secure legislative protections.

Transgender.org's success relies on our collective effort. Your skills, passion, and unique insights as a member of the non-binary community are crucial. To maintain the relevance and effectiveness of our platform, we're seeking dedicated individuals who can commit 10-15 hours weekly in the following roles:

React / Typescript Developers (2): To enhance our front-end.

Designers (2): We need one UI designer to collaborate with our existing design team and one UX researcher to help improve our user experience.

Content Designers (2): To craft high-quality content that aligns with our brand and design guidelines.

Attorney (1): To provide essential legal support and guidance.

Accountant (1): To assist with financial management and maintain our financial transparency.

Community Managers (2): To oversee our Discord and future social media platforms, ensuring a safe and welcoming space for all.

If you're interested in contributing to this initiative, in one of these roles or in any other way, please join us on our Transgender.org Discord (link available on our homepage). Together, we can create something truly transformative and lasting.

I believe in the power of our community to shape the future of Transgender.org. I am excited to co-create with you and witness the extraordinary impact we can make together. ❤️

Tamzin

Hey gang,

I'm in the United States, for context.

I know somebody who recently moved from California to Oregon to get what I assume is phalloplasty. I know that there are two options for trans masculine people.

I'm confused as to why that person moved because California is also a pretty good state for trans people, but I guess it depends on what kind of trans you are. I admit, having to build a phallus for someone is a pretty complicated process. I'm not considering bottom surgery so I never looked at quality in terms of state for that process.

I'm very interested in other people's take on this. Even though I'm not considering bottom surgery now, I might consider it in the future. I'm currently in Minnesota, considering moving to Pennsylvania at some point. So I guess it would be good to go over terms of quality and eligible procedures for bottom surgery by state.

What say you?

I've tried a bunch of binders over the years, and my current favorite is a gc2b tank binder, but it's a little clammy in hot weather. I've mostly been getting by with cotton sports bras at a band size two inches smaller than my actual size, with a square-cut, loose overshirt to disguise the lumpiness. That's good enough for a quick trip to the store, but I think have an excuse to buy a new one. (Never mind the... uh... several others in my closet, lol). Any recommendations?

Hi all! I just wanted to celebrate the accidentally gender affirming surgery I'll be having! So I have a giant dick bag fibroid (tumor, usually benign) as big as a softball growing on my internal shark week cavity. My doctor has recommended that we hack the whole dang apparatus out to avoid future tumor growth. And. I. Am So. Happy. I never wanted that junk to begin with! And I don't even have to explain myself too anyone (not that I ever have to, but you know what I mean)! No more shark week ever again! !!!!! Celebrate with me!

Hii I'm nonbinary but I do want to look more masc. But I recently found out I have PCOS (Its not 100% confirmed by my PCP still waiting to see gynecologist for more treatment + confirming for sure).

What I was wondering is does anyone else have experience doing T (I probably want to mircodose) with PCOS? I'm asking because I'm worried that now its not a possibility at all for me with how messed up my hormones have been and that once I get them stable doing T would mess with it all too much, and wanted to see if anyone has any ideas?

I’m very averse to going to get haircuts, and typically only get one when my hair length starts getting me misgendered (or it starts to get in my face and drive me crazy). But I just recently got a haircut, the barber wasn’t weird about it and gave me the style I asked for, and now everything feels SO much nicer without hair everywhere!

Please feel free to share what little trans related achievements have made you happy lately 😊

I just updated the sidebar with some more formalized rules and a couple of resources. Right now its The Trevor Project and Trans Lifeline, as well as the Gender Dysphoria Bible and a list of where to get binders/packers. Anything else I should add?

I’m also considering making a Google doc or some sort of wiki so we’re not limited by the physical space available in the sidebar. Maybe a pinned post? I’d love suggestions on helpful resources that might be too much info for the sidebar or where to keep the extra resources.

Just noticed that the language of this instance was set only to English, which means if you had undetermined selected as your profile language you couldn’t see/post here. Updated the language to undetermined and English. Let me know if there’s any issues!

I don't really know what to talk about exactly, so I guess just... how are you guys holding up?