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It's friendliness of the community and willingness to treat randos with respect. Responses here seem to fit a general pattern of "I agree and...", or "you're wrong and stupid".
I generally have a better experience on Reddit. I'm less likely to get responses, but I get fewer downvotes there and the responses are usually nicer.
There's a number of instances that don't have downvotes. Notably, it forces each person who takes issue with something you've said to respond to you if nobody else has said it. Whether that's better is up to you.
In my experience the lack of downvotes does make for a better instance.
I've no strong feelings on the matter, but I can understand how some would feel 10 people telling you exactly how you're wrong can feel worse than 10 downvotes.
I avoid this by simply being correct all the time.
I really need to work on that.