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Why I think people should consider using different pronouns in different spaces (youtu.be)
submitted 2 months ago by rosethornRangerTTV@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org
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[–] alyaza@beehaw.org 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am not understanding what you want from me

i think the basic confusion people are having is that, when you phrase it like "I use it/its in spaces where I do not plan on engaging with people as individuals" and "This space is not a chat room and there is no reason to treat it as such. It is a forum.", how that comes off to some people is you are kind of treating this place like a dumping ground for what you want to talk about and then ignoring other people jumping off of your posts. that may or may not be what you intend to do; so that's why people are trying to clarify the intent of your posts.

[–] rosethornRangerTTV@beehaw.org 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

i mean i did mention replying to comments though, so idk how they could assume that i was planning on ignoring them?

idk it feels like bad faith assumptions

like people keep saying im not going to use peoples pronouns when i didnt say anything about that?

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 6 points 2 months ago

Because you said that you use it/its when you are in a forum where you don't plan on interacting as an individual, and I think they took that to mean you will use it/its when addressing others.