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Why I think people should consider using different pronouns in different spaces (youtu.be)
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[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was just using that as an example, since I already listed they/them as the second pronoun set

[–] jarfil@beehaw.org 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I get that, I'm just trying to understand the difference between /them and /it in that example. I feel like "them" is more generic than "it", so I feel like "them" would be a better fit in a space where it's nobody's business, the same as in a professional setting.

Am I mistaken or missing something?

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I feel like “them” is more generic than “it”

That's interesting. I hadn't really thought of them in terms of comfort level needed to use them with others, and after considering it I think you're probably right.