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[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

A father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her.

I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it.

Without speaking to her as a person, it's certain that if something's happening it's the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim.

We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she's a bad person for other reasons, these aren't mutually exclusive.

[–] Xeroxchasechase@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thanks. It's obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did'nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.

[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

Ah I understand, sorry for being blunt but there's a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim's actions in abusive situations.

Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don't assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.