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Edit: NOTE, I am the receiver of the texts.

So many people asking me to have my wife do something different on her end.

Beloved, she is on iPhone because she doesn't want to do anything "weird." She is texting from her phone number using her texting app. That's what's going to happen.

Now, why can't I get iMessage on my android phone? If it's just a messenger app why not make it available for Android?

I'd use it.

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[โ€“] stoy@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

THE solution is not to buy the wife an Android, that is ONE solution.

In total, there are a few solutions, I number them to make it easier to refer to them, not to order them from best to worst.

  1. Get yourself an iPhone
  2. Get your wife an Android
  3. Wait for iOS 18
  4. Switch to a messaging app like Element or Signal.

1 and 2: Unless you yourself can accept switching to using the other system, it is unfair to demand that the other part does that.

I have tried to switch to Android, I did it back in 2019, but I just disliked the feel of the OS enough that after dropping my phone and smashing the screen after 2-3 months, I didn't even bother to get it fixed, I just moved back to my iPhone.

  1. iOS 18 will have RCS, and will probably solve this.
[โ€“] CyberSyndicalist@hexbear.net 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[โ€“] stoy@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 months ago

"NO! YOU MUST FORCE EVERYONE IN YOUR VICINITY TO USE SIGNAL. USE SIGNAL. IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW DOESN'T USE SIGNAL, KILL THEM."

This entire thread.

[โ€“] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 3 months ago

Looks fully functional to me!