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Do you think intention is more important or perception is more important? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by cubedsteaks to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] cubedsteaks 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The reverse of this would be a high functioning charming psychopath that’s great at manipulating people and is well liked but his intentions are to take advantage of you so they’re a truly bad person despite not being perceived as such

Oh I have definitely encountered this type of guy before.

[–] C4d@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I used to live with one. We called her the smiling assassin.