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Store the breastmilk in the normal freezer and put your frozen food in the basement. A chest freezer would be fine for this purpose as long as your partner can bend over or you'll happy to be the one to always access it.

If you've got the energy to cook something frozen, you've got the energy to go the basement.

You won't necessarily have that same energy when you need to warm up a packet of milk or banking pumped milk.

A bit of formula and a microwave sterilizer can be a lifesaver for the first two weeks when your partner and baby and learning to breastfeed and building supply, while you have to get them back to their birth weight and keep them eating enough to quickly pass the jaundice.

If you can afford it, Amazon Prime's shipping times are very helpful in the early days when you're figuring stuff out.

Also make sure you discuss and develop a birth plan for different options - music, photography, who will be notified, invited etc. but also the medical aspects of csections, induction, natural birth and emergency csections to help understand your partners desires and help you make more informed decisions if required. Birth trauma is a huge driver of PTSD and post partum anxiety and depression.

People will tell you to take lots of photos because the time goes so quickly - it will go quickly and you'll regret not taking enough photos because you don't have a GoPro strapped to your head. You will then be able to regret not taking enough pictures and can tell other parents to take more pictures, forgetting why you didn't in the first place.

Really wonderful experience in the cozy newborn bubble.

What else? There's some really nice disposable adult post partum diapers you can just rip off, much better than pads and maternity underwear/mesh underwear. Fans and chainsaw noises work quite well to help relax a baby when they're overtired.

You want access to the breast milk ASAP. A side door freezer with drawers works good enough for keeping the cold in as long as you aren't too rough pulling them in/out (think of them like full of water, any air that "spills" out needs to be recooled). I would keep it on the same floor as you live in however, kids screaming because they're hungry and you have to go to the basement first, open the chest freezer (I know I couldn't keep it tidy enough and rummaging for those bags while the kids screaming does not sound like a good time), then go back up and warm it up?

It's usually not time-sensitive to get it but some nights can be very draining and you want to have everything within reach. A steriliser and milk warmer is my secret tip, I thought we didn't need it but we got gifted both and they were amazing. Boiling bottles is an energy and water and time intensive chore, and a bottle warmer ensures a great temperature.

Also yeah it's kind of the calm before the storm but don't underestimate how boringggggg it can be. Like there are hours where nothing happens and then minutes in which hours happen. My wife practically lived in the chair in front of the TV while the small one was sleeping/feeding. Find something nice to do while the little one sleeps on one of you.