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[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It depends on why they’re asking. If they’re asking because they’re irresponsible, that’s one thing. If they’re asking because they are legitimately struggling against systemic issues, then it’s another.

Life is a lot more complicated than you’re implying, and family should be there to support each other.

Then again, so should society in general. Life should be challenging, but it shouldn’t be so hard that it’s impossible for so many people just to get by.

[–] thenerdjournals@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

May I ask why you think life should be challenging?

[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Keep in mind that I said “challenging” not “difficult”.

But a challenge gives a person something to strive for. Motivation to be something greater. But I also believe the people should have all the support and encouragement they need to meet that challenge as well as all of the support they need should they fail— even if they fail repeatedly.

[–] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sometimes that irresponsibility is a systemic issue. Low income home life leads to lack of education, drug addiction, crime, etc.

Some people wouldn't know what to do with money even if they had it.

[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s right on all points.

And a society as rich and advanced as ours should be there to support people in all cases. In the highest of highs, to help them responsibly manage their money, and the lowest of lows to help put their lives back together when they fail.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Looking down on poor people sure makes you feel better about yourself, doesn't it?

[–] Drusas@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is basically the opposite of what the person you replied to was saying. S/he's saying it's not their fault because of systemic problems.

[–] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some people wouldn’t know what to do with money even if they had it.

OK, I'm probably misinterpreting your intent, but I don't know how to read that in any other way than saying some poor people aren't worth helping because they lack a skill set that wealthier people have. I find it pretty crazy that being bad at managing money is often seen as a moral failing even though it's a skill that nobody is born with and isn't even taught in schools (for the most part).

[–] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yes, you are misinterpreting my intent, what you're saying is exactly my point. Wealthier people have more access to education on these topics because it's usually not free, additionally usually someone of low income who is a parent will also not have that knowledge to give their children

Literally I'm saying the exact opposite of what you're assuming, if they don't get the proper help then they can't help themselves, sometimes

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 0 points 1 year ago