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Have you considered a second job? It will drain you of your energy and happiness, but it’ll be worse if you become homeless.
See if you’re able to secure a second job that isn’t labor intensive like online customer service or maybe a late night security guard job at an empty office. Usually you get a lot of down time, so you could use that to perhaps study for a better, more permanent job.
Try to fit in enough hours to sleep, shower, eat, and maybe light exercise. I have found that the minimum hours of sleep I need to still function is 5 - this is dangerous and will kill you in the long run, but if you think it’ll keep you off the streets if you just brave it through for a few months, then it may be worth it.
If you’re spending the minimum, then a second, easier job maybe help you get out of the hole, or at least for the short term.