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Do you interpret a 👍 as a rude reply? (leminal.space)

submitted 3 days ago by Flamangoman@leminal.space to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Every time somebody sends me a thumb I take it as "whatever you say you fucking dumbass" and it pisses me off.

And ya, I'm aware that that the replies are going to be thumbs, let's see em ya jerks!!!

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[–] Silv3rShi3ld@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

Whether a thumbs-up emoji is a good response really depends on the situation.

If it's a quick 'yes' or 'okay' to a simple question, it's fine. But if someone's asking for your opinion or needs more details, it can seem like you're not putting in much effort.

Also, how well you know the person matters a lot. You might use it with a close friend. In contrast someone you don't know well, it can be considered rude.