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You are not pathetic! Having emotions about things and feeling your feelings is not pathetic.

It's definitely easier being on and participating on the internet when you have a 'thicker skin' and aren't too much of a sponge emotionally, but I don't think it should be that way. I'm sorry that it does tend to be that way. It sucks.

Having feelings about people saying negative things about a post you made where you poured out your thoughts and feelings and opened yourself up is not pathetic. It would probably be beneficial to you (& to everyone, not just you) to try and not take stuff like these internet comments so personally and so hard, but I know that's a lot easier said than done, and being this way is not a fault.

I may be projecting, because I'm definitely this way, but it sounds like you may have a habit of being too hard on yourself? I know I do! I'm a bit of an emotional sponge like you described yourself as, too, so I totally get it. We both could benefit from giving ourselves some more grace and understanding, like I tend to do for others and I'm guessing you do, too, and trying not to be so hard on ourselves. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you/us, though. It's so easy to be this way, especially on the mean wild west that is the internet!

I'm probably all over the place with this but I hope it all makes sense.

Just to reiterate: you're not pathetic. Feeling that way and being that way is not pathetic. You deserve to be treated with kindness and understanding, both from yourself and from others. Some of these commenters seem to be taking your post and comments without reading them in good faith..which not only isn't cool, but Beehaw has rules/guidelines about doing our best to take people's comments and arguments and stuff in good faith, darn it!

What you were saying was perfectly clear to me and I totally get and understand where you're coming from and what you're getting at and I agree because I've seen the same thing.

I hope this all makes sense. I can get a little rambly and all over the place, especially when I'm emotional, and seeing your comment saying how hurt you were and then also being so hard on yourself for it makes my heart hurt for you! I totally empathize and understand. If I can clarify anything, please feel free to let me know!

You're not pathetic and your feelings (in the comment and the post) are totally understandable and valid here. Please try to be more kind and positive to yourself, just like how in your post you were saying people should be less negative and more kind and positive on forums and internet stuff. You deserve kindness! I'm sending big internet hugs your way :)

(My apologies again for this long, rambly, all over the place, novel of a comment, lol!)