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"The real barrier is the soaring cost of marriage and child-rearing. Many young people simply can't afford to get married. To truly raise marriage rates, the government needs to lower these economic burdens."

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[–] Hikuro93@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

Of course experiences differ from person to person, culture to culture, and between different circumstances. But in my experience...

  • Have a brother-in-law who married my SO's older sister many years before we even met. Had 3 children together. Out of nowhere he decided to run away and live with another woman, then got back, decided "people felt different" and left again, only to again try to return and be denied by my sister-in-law. They were the favorites of my mother-in-law until the separation.

  • Have another BIL, married my SO's younger sister. 2 kids together, just months ago he threatened to leave to a younger woman (a friend of his younger sister). He was the only one to sympathize and side with the first BIL, guess why. Might still run away, because he clearly is only there for convenience.

  • Me and my SO, not married, 13 years together through thick and thin, we never saw any real point to it since we always built our relationship based in trust and mutual understanding. Still going strong and any time we have issues we face them together. Now my MIL tends to favor us over the other 'couples', now "marriage doesn't guarantee anything after all", not that I personally care about that.

The point being. Marry if you want, but never feel forced to do it. If you need a fancy piece of paper by the government or religion to stay together then it's nothing more than a self-imposed cage, and it's far from a guarantee against infidelity.

You only have this one single life. Live happily, don't try to please everyone against your own happiness. Everyone will still be unpleased, and you'll only get increasingly miserable.

[–] msprout@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I deeply respect anyone who chooses any alternative to monogamy, but y'all have no idea how stoked I am that I get to call my partner "wife."

It's totally fair to be as vanilla as an unsalted cracker if that's what you feel! The 'Q' part of LGBTQIA is super duper important, as how can you be sure you're straight without ever asking?

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