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I've got no problem with them, but these are obviously kids who grew up in a different age than me, and it shows, I know what could seem a joke to me could come off different to them. Especially this being In the trades and the type of jokes we make here. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, we're all trying to just get through the day after all

Edit: I have learned, they used to be female, transitioned to male. (So trans-masc? I'm probably messing that up) Lesbian, and non-binary, thankfully they brought it up which was very helpful as I wasn't sure if it was appropriate to ask

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I'd avoid any and all controversial topics and just keep things purely professional.

Used to be I'd engage with someone based on their physical presentation, but even that is a bit tricky anymore, and with social media blowing up even the most minor misunderstandings, it's best to just keep it professional.

[–] Dragonstaff@leminal.space 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Maybe "engaging with someone's physical presentation" was just always a bad idea and you've just recently realized that.

Treating people with kindness and respect mostly works out fine.

[–] Dragonstaff@leminal.space 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

How many trans people do you know? Has a trans person gotten mad at you for something?

Charitably, it seems like people who have never met trans people seem to think they're balls of tinder, waiting to explode at any imagined slight. There is a lot of misinformation and propaganda out there and trans people are a punching bag.

Yes, words change a lot, and maybe someone might ask you to use a different word. That's not an attack on you.

Yeah, you might meet someone on a bad day or there could be a misunderstanding, but, in general, treating people with kindness and respect works out pretty well.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

treating people with kindness and respect

That's what I said. Be courteous.