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What is everyone's opinion on how ADHD affects people's desire to have kids? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 4 days ago by ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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When I was a kid, I was punished excessively. My diagnosis occurred when I was 25. In the 1980s, I got paddled every day at school and was punished constantly. It made me feel rejected, leading to rejection sensitivity dysphoria. By the time I was 9, I decided life was not worth living and have not changed my mind at 45 years old. I would never have a child to suffer the way I did. I still feel like nobody wants me around. My mental health issues have severely impacted my quality of life. I'm just now figuring out that this might be why I have never felt my clock tick, or thought for even a second of my life that I wanted kids.

Has this happened to anyone else? I wonder how many in this forum might have decided against parenthood due to ADHD effects without realizing it.

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[–] ArrrborDAY@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You might have CPTSD in addition to ADHD

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I've thought about that, but the definitions online seem to only include serious traumas that I have not been through.

[–] ArrrborDAY@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago

complex trauma is due to many smaller events occurring over a long period of time, usually during childhood but also during a relationship. "serious" traumas are not necessary