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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
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- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
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- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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Thanks!! As a surg tech I don't get much insight from my patients: they roll into the OR, I introduce myself, anesthesiologist knocks them out, and we get to work. And the times I do get to chat (case delay for whatever reason and the patient is just hanging out with us on the OR bed) I usually try to just keep them distracted with questions about their work or kids or music preference or shit like that. Anything to keep their focus away from the pile of what looks like medieval torture devices I'm assembling, or the alien environment that ORs are for anyone who doesn't work there. ...what I don't do is grill them about the quality of care they're receiving lol.
So, conversations like this one are the closest thing I get to direct feedback. So again, thanks!!
Once nursing school is finished up and I switch over to the dark side, there will be a lot more interaction with actual conscious patients, so the feedback I'm getting here is super helpful!
Feel free to send DMs if you want to have a longer chat about this. I'm headed for general anesthesia tomorrow for an unrelated procedure (see, we have normal human things like everyone else!) so I'm sure I'll be meeting another nice surgical technician like you before I go under. I've been through a whirlwind lately, and my post history isn't even half of it, so I am sure there's much to discuss. Thanks again for remembering the human part of healthcare!
Right back at you if you have any questions about the OR! Anything specific to the procedure you're about to have, this late in the game I'd definitely stick with your healthcare team and not a random internet stranger, but anything that's OR in general, I got you!