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I worried for a long time that I was gonna be single forever. The was dumb for 2 reasons.
1, When I finally dated somebody for the first time, I quickly realized that actually no, a relationship was not necessary for maintaining my self worth, and
2, Turns out if I just go for it enough times, eventually I'll make the shot. In fact, the confidence I now have in being okay being single makes it easier to find relationships because I'm not pushing my entire self worth on somebody when I ask them out which makes them more comfortable and therefore more likely to say yes.