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I blame it on porn. Positions that put the naughty bits on full display while sexing are not exactly … ah … comfortable. But porn has become the training ground for sex for so many men. 🙄
Well a good partner will learn what you like and enjoy and will not pressure you to do anything that you don’t enjoy.
I think it's just a little bit more nuanced than that. Sometimes, if it's something my partner really enjoys and I don't, I like to indulge them. As long as the relationship is bidirectional in such issues I don't see it as a problem.
It's like ... washing dishes. I hate washing dishes. But I do it because as part of a healthy relationship we share things, even things we personally find unpleasant.
If I start getting demands to do things, however, that's now toxicity in the relationship and gets nipped in the bud.
Yep if it feels good it looks like shit and if it looks good it feels like shit