They can feel act and behave like women all they want and that's fine, but if physically you were a man and needed several parts of your body surgically and chemically changed then you're floating in a gray area on how men think about that when it comes to dating. If you aren't able to see that then you're every bit as closed minded as any of the men who would have an issue with that. Full stop.

[–] chuckleslord@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

A straight dude can be squeamish about dating a transwoman, that's something different. Not everyone wants dick, I get that. But a straight dude dating a transwoman doesn't somehow make him not straight. Marten is attracted to women, and is dating one. Nothing about this indicates he's bi. What is there not to get here?

[–] wupasscat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago

Just because you don't think trans women are women doesn't mean every guy thinks the same. Stop projecting.