Rather it is because you don't do those things that you are not. I personally still like to have at least a box spring, but for the most part my bedroom is, well, a room that I put my bed in. I don't understand the need for $1,000 of pillows that we aren't allowed to actually sleep with overly fancy blankets that look nice in a photo but aren't anywhere near as comfortable as a cheap down blanket at Costco.

Don't get me wrong I do enjoy things looking nice, but there has to be some value to the item other than just it looks nicer. Function over form ideally function with form but in the bedroom form rarely follows function