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I think forcing a differentiation between social media and social lives can be dangerous. I say this in the context of trans and otherkin people who use free social media. I think they are in the best position to judge their own safety individually.
You're speaking about accessibility of the safe space. It's easier to access a social media and use it as a safe space. But, it doesn't opposite with the fact that social live and social media are different.
Safe space was a thing before the event of social media. Social media helps people discovering their differences and accepting these. This is access to the information and not social live. I didn't write people have to avoid social media.
Before the wide spreading of the internet, people would move to a different town, will reach specific places for safe spaces. They were free or used networks and didn't rely on private companies like Meta. This is a huge difference.
I think you're ignoring me again. I said in the context of trans people who use free social media. Like the fediverse.
And yeah, we had ways of doing it before the internet. And they sucked. Fewer people knew they were queer, and they stayed closeted for longer. And their safe spaces could be raided by the police, and that's how we got Stonewall. I like the internet better.
By "free social media", did you mean "no-cost" or "unhindered"? Because in my experience, at least 95% of people are completely incapable of judging their own online safety (especially in regard to the "no-cost" social media sites) just from their lack of technical background knowledge. I do not see why any of the stated groups should be exempt from that?