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Thanks for your honesty.
There was someone at my old job who I sometimes felt like she was flirting with me, but I'm very sure she's just nice to everyone and has learned from early on that if you look at men a certain way and talk to them a certain way, they tend to hang on your words and want to help you out. She is very pretty, engaging and fun, but that was the beginning and end of it. Younger me would have been completely and utterly smitten but by the time I met her I could tell what the score was.
I don't even think she's flirting with me, but I feel connected to her for some reason. Ig it's bc we bond over our mental health struggles, and I don't know many other people who are comfortable with being as open about it as she is.