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What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?
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this post was submitted on 14 Jul 2023
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Lost out on a good job opportunity with this one. I was going to do some interview prep and someone just told me to, “be yourself, they just want to get to know you.” Yeah bullshit… didn’t get that gig and did interview prep for a different opportunity. It went incredibly well the second time around.
As long-term career advice, I think this is helpful In finding something that doesn't drag you down. If you can't be yourself at work it's going to be far more taxing.
But I absolutely understand this is a luxury to be able to be in that position of being choosy about your employer.
You'll be far happier in an environment that enjoys you for being you, but you'll find a job quicker by saying what they want to hear