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Americans are explaining why they don't say 'you're welcome' in customer service settings after foreigners complained that 'mmhmm' comes off as rude (www.insider.com)
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I was watching a video from two years ago about different social norms and this showed up. Found someone questioning the same eight years ago on reddit (when it seemed less normalized). It feels so weird not being aware of this shift, even as a foreigner.

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[–] Wanderer@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Everyone seems to be glossing over the mmhmm part of this post. That's the weirdest thing.

I do love a good "You're welcome"

But I only ever do it like if I hold a door open for someone then they walk through without acknowledging me. "You're welcome! ... cunt". But Americans largely don't get sarcasm.