this post was submitted on 21 Nov 2023
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[–] canis_majoris@lemmy.ca -2 points 1 year ago

Votes are unimportant, and the sooner you stop caring about them the easier it is to interact on the site without feeling attacked.

Is it satisfying to see a big number next to your comment? Sure, but the more you think of it as just talking with people even if you ultimately disagree it's a healthier environment.