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[–] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 26 points 9 months ago (4 children)

My car is having a problem. I need a solution.

What problem is it having?

That is irrelevant.

[–] squiblet@kbin.social 10 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Or like

“Does anyone know how to silently pick deadbolts?”

“Uh, why do you need to do that? Is it your house?”

“Look, I just need to know how to do it.”

[–] PlogLod@lemmy.world -4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Well that example actually makes sense. It demonstrates that you don't necessarily need to know the specifics in order to help, you just want to know because you're apprehensive. What the commenter you were replying to was saying was a completely disingenuous comparison.

[–] PlogLod@lemmy.world -5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

So let's take that example (and of course wanting to be able to comment completely normal things without them being deleted is not as extreme as trying to pick a lock, but close enough).

What if the person wasn't able to share exactly why they needed to pick a lock, but they gave you some information pointing to what it was, and asked you to trust that their intentions were pure and they weren't doing anything wrong?

Would you still refuse to help them?

Obviously this is a hypothetical, and I gave given multiple examples already of the types of harmless comments that get deleted, but people still refuse to even consider the possibility of helping me.

Inb4 downvotes, because that's how this is going, downvote me for no reason without explaining why, or for reasons that make no sense.

[–] squiblet@kbin.social 6 points 9 months ago

I’d be pretty suspicious why they wouldn’t tell me the reason, actually, and an internet stranger asking me to trust that their intentions are pure isn’t very persuasive. You don’t seem like someone who would be outright abusive, though, and you have a fairly innocuous history on Lemmy from what I can see. I think one problem is that we don’t really know the answer to the question. Most people here would just not comment or stop going to YouTube rather than try to come up with some sneaky way to m4k3 comm!ent5 th4.t ev4d3 f.i.l t3r5.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

Actually, I used to subscribe to r/lockpicking, and there were VERY strict rules about posting questions about a lock that was closed.

I thought it was neat that I was able to pick my desk drawer at work with a paperclip, but my pic immediately got deleted because even though it was my desk, it "wasn't my lock to pick".

So, the reality of your hypothetical situation is no, people should not and will not help you cheat the system, because we have no idea who you are or what you want to accomplish.

[–] amio@kbin.social 6 points 9 months ago

I can't believe you would ask them about their car like that, truly way over the line and you must be a terrible person, just because it's absolutely essential information gives you no right to go prying in their business like this, etc etc etc

(as much as I hate "/s"... /s.)