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Why do Lemmy users rarely use emoticons? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 11 months ago by Slow to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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[–] victorz@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I use them as a complement in my messages where I want to convey an emotion which isn't obvious from the text itself. Like if I'm being self-deprecating in a joking manner, e.g. Not very easy to convey in text. But if I add some kind of smiling-ish emoji or something, it's clearer that I'm not serious.

Overuse is cringe however.

[–] AzureInfinity@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If something isn't obvious from the text, why not change the /style/ of writing instead of appending dissonant graphics? Make it obviously sarcastic or humorous, instead of leaving the users guessing if its satire or sincere expression.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

Not everyone is good at that type of thing. 🙃