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De-federate from instances with loli (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 year ago by InfiniteVariables@sh.itjust.works to c/main@sh.itjust.works

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Can we get a consensus on whether our community should de-federate with servers that host loli? I personally think we should block them, and if that ends up not being the consensus here then I'll probably sign up on another server. I hope we can all agree to set that boundary though because I like it here and it seems otherwise pretty cool.

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[–] _uc@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In general I’d agree and say yeah, let people decide for themselves but content like this, which normalises or legitimises real world harms, shouldn’t be something easily stumbled upon.

Viewing that sort of content, or building community around its enjoyment, isn’t going to lead anywhere good.

Allowing it to show up here is net-negative.

[–] shani77@lemmy.fmhy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's been a long time since I've looked, but studies suggest that porn in general doesn't have a major effect on your behavior. It might lead to insecurity, but it doesn't lead to action. Some people are worried about legality, most people just don't want to see it, those are fine and dandy but anything else is just moral outrage

[–] CookieJarObserver@burggit.moe 4 points 1 year ago

Actually studies around that topic show that porn (regardless of what) does decrease violent things and, most importantly, that this type of hentai we are talking about decreased actual acts of pedophilia and therfore protects real children

I don't want to see it but if some people like it... Well rather a drawing than anything else.

[–] _uc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I think people can have a heathy relationship with porn, and yeah there are a lot of puritanical views that sound superficially convincing, especially in direct comparison to addictive substances.

It's hard for a lot of people to approach this subject from a place of empathy and I think shunning a group could risk the same harms as condoning the behaviour; you end up with a group that convinces itself of an internally invisible false narrative, and there's nobody there to oppose it.

The presence of these images though indicates a group of people who think they're is ok, who are likely accessing more extreme images, and ultimately creates a sense of normalcy around consumption. I don't think ordinary discussion should be juxtaposed with that and it shouldn't be freely available on a general purpose site.