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With pleasure, that's the true :),
In this context, I mean that I tell you to not be scared about others but take in consideration that I don't want to hurt you in case there is a misunderstanding and not truly legitimate to give u advices . I'm far away to live what you live I guess.
I'm not legitimate to really feel you and understand you, maybe. I have no trace of surgery on me, bc I didn't got one to transit as woman. For now, I'm just wearing some stuff inside and outside less, like a vest, sweats, maybe socks but no "lingeries (French)" at least not at work,, nailings, shaving , little make up/eye line, that the most will not notice, and removal hairs.
In fact, Things boys can do too in reality without a being a problem.
I'm happy that you see my words as encouragement. They are the really true. U did the harder from my POV.
And if I didn't touch the real subject, the real motion here, so pls sorry don't be offend and don't take my hurting words in considerations (bc I've tried to be humoristic in my answering ^^").
This c is first for FtM after all ;-).
That's what I meant ^^".
You don't need surgery or even hormones to be trans. If you feel like a lady then there isn't anything fake about that <3
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Yeah I've said it before related to egging but it also works against accusations of faking or imposter syndrome (like this) too, the thing that defines gender identity is how the person identifies, not what they've done for affirmation, not what they desire, not even their reason for identifying if they even have one, just the fact they identify is what makes them that identity.
You can't really be faking an identity, just as your actions won't make you an egg. The gender (and gender modality) you identify as, what you do besides that has no effect. Also if you feel different about it later and identify as something else, that's completely fine and normal, it just means you might be some level of genderfluid.
Ive checked theses links, thanks, i keep. Thats a lot to digest again ^^". Its funny that you name the impostor syndrome bc this one block me a lot in my life x) in many aspect
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